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Why don't older adults tell someone about the abuse?

Older adults who are abused might not tell because:

  • They might feel afraid, embarrassed, ashamed, or alone.
  • They feel that being abused is their fault.
  • They might not want the person who is abusing them to get in trouble.
  • They might be afraid of making the abuse worse by telling.
  • They might think that violence is normal or okay.
  • They are worried about people gossiping.
  • They don't speak the same language as the nurse or RCMP.
  • They can't communicate well because of a disability.
  • They are afraid that people will think they are lying.
  • They don't want to get "outsiders" involved.
  • They don't know who to talk to.